Some of the reasons men like anal sex may lead you to question whether you like the implications of his enjoyment. If this arises then your man may not be at a level of sexual maturity to approach anal sex with the respect it deserves. Anal sex tops the "must try" list for many guys but it's not exactly up there for most women. We asked a few seasoned sex experts why men are so fascinated by the idea of getting into our back doors. Do men really think of anal sex as the holy grail of bedroom activities? If you pay attention to pop culture, it certainly seems like it: Take that “accidental anal” episode of The Mindy Project, for example. Porn is everywhere now and anal sex has become standard in pornos. So, men see it in action even if they aren't looking for it. Way too many men equate what they see in films with what they want or think their sex life should be like. I found that for gay men, their physical experience of anal sex paralleled that of vaginal sex for women. Their prostate serves as the male pleasure center, much like the clitoris for women. The men who give anal sex described an emotional as well as physical element to their experience.
Anal sex avoids intimacy – cue the commitment-phobes “The most common position in anal sex is for the woman to be bent over, with the man on top or over her, looking at her back. For men, a sense of power and domination comes with that. Do men like anal sex over vaginal sex? If so, why? Men who like sex, I know plenty of individuals who indulge in anal; men and women. Anal sex tops the "must try" list for many guys but it's not exactly up there for most women. We asked a few seasoned sex experts why men are so fascinated by the idea of getting into our back doors.